relationships, namely feelings of competition between
parents and grandparents.
12
A study conducted in China
21
identifies that grandparents
are expected to support parents during the transition to
parenthood, even without parents asking for it. The study
mentions that, regarding postpartum and newborn care,
parents identify a significant gap between their beliefs and
those of their grandparents, noting that the approaches of
the older generation are outdated and unscientific. On the
other hand, the older generation believes they have the
experience of having children and the wisdom already
passed on for years. This discord creates family strife. The
study also identifies that parents appreciate the support
received by grandparents, for allowing time off from the
demands of care; however, they criticize them for
potentially causing harm to the baby, for their traditional
approaches. The same study also argues that clear and
direct communication leads to a better family relationship
and mutual understanding, rather than criticism. On the
other hand, there were conflicts whenever family members
expressed ineffective or non-existent communication and
insisted on doing it their way, which led to precarious family
relationships. If family members did not speak up and hide
their conflicts or communicate in a vague way, they were
more likely to trigger feelings of anger and silent aggression.
Families with well-established boundaries tend to have
more harmony in this transition period.
15
Most of the
interviewed grandparents recognized their role and
boundaries and refrained from expressing their views on
parental decisions. In some families there was competition
among their members for control and, when this
competition was strong, conflicts arose. This study
15
also
refers to generational limits, that is, the expectations of
perceived limits and rules of interaction of all family
members, involving the regulation of the behavior of
parents and grandparents. Clear boundaries require
grandparents to respect parental authority and avoid
offering too much advice regarding their parenting
decisions. Unwanted advice from grandparents is the most
ineffective form of communication and can be perceived as
a critique of parental care, affecting trust in one's own
parental skills.
15
Thus, the involvement of grandparents in
the parental role can threaten the autonomy of parents and
may not be well received by them.
The role of healthcare professionals
Parents and grandparents attribute a relevant role to health
professionals as mediators of family conflicts.
21
The former
claim that the latter are in a better position to mediate
family conflicts related to the clarification of roles, division
of tasks, communication and establishment of limits in the
puerperium and in the care of the newborn. The need for
knowledge and development of parental skills, the need for
information and education in the postpartum period and
psychological support for mothers are also identified.
21
There is a potential gap between health education
campaigns that target mothers as autonomous decision-
makers and the reality of a more collectivist community
structure in which mothers rarely make these decisions
without the support of other community members.
Burgess
6
argues that it is important for health professionals
preparing for childbirth and promoting adaptation to
parenting to recognize the role of grandparents and work
to assess their knowledge of current care practices and child
safety, including their role in caring for the baby. A
thorough evaluation will allow health professionals to
provide appropriate educational and support interventions
and resources for both parents and grandparents. The birth
of a new baby is not only an isolated experience for the
future mother, but also a transition for the grandparents.
6
In this sense, the provision of support by health
professionals can improve self-efficacy, as well as the
growth of grandparents as individuals. As educators, they
should be mindful of what this transition can mean and
help families embrace the interconnectedness that the birth
of this new baby brings to all
.13
Discussion
In the last eight years, 11 articles were found that identify
the various roles of grandparents in the transition to
parenthood of their children, thus providing an answer to
the research question initially formulated. This scoping
review therefore allows us to understand that grandparents
can play a vital role in the lives of children and their
grandchildren and represent a source of support, whether
instrumental, emotional, informative or financial,
6,11,12
by
providing information and guidance.
11
This informational,
emotional and instrumental support during the perinatal
period can help establish the parent-child bond, promote
maternal energy balance, improve child's nutritional
outcomes
13
and improve maternal mental health.
14
It is also identified the influence that grandmothers
represent in the nutrition of the whole family in the
perinatal period, namely in the preparation of meals,
19
as
well as their influence on exclusive breastfeeding. We know
that breast milk is the best food for the baby until food
introduction and that it is exclusively recommended until 6
months of age;
20
however, several factors contribute to
influence its practice. Thus, the practice of exclusive
breastfeeding during the first 6 months of the baby's life is
a relational behavior influenced by the mother's intentions,
family networks and cultural, historical and social
contexts.
16
There is scientific evidence that corroborates
the ability of grandmothers to influence exclusive
breastfeeding.
17,18
Although there are differences in the
type of breastfeeding outcome and how the influence of
grandmothers was measured, the overall effect on
breastfeeding was positive when the attitudes or
experiences of older female generations in relation to
breastfeeding were favorable. A grandmother's positive
opinion of breastfeeding had the potential to influence a
mother up to 12% to initiate breastfeeding. On the other
hand, a negative opinion has the ability to reduce the
probability of breastfeeding up to 70%.
17
In this sense, it is
pertinent to allow and encourage the presence and
participation of grandmothers in the health care provided